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Effective
time management is just one of many ways to keep from
succumbing to stress overload. Some methods of stress
management that you might want to experiment with to
see what works best for your particular situation.
- Associate with people whom you enjoy and who support
you.
- Learn and practice relaxation or meditation skills.
- Engage in a vigorous physical exercise that is convenient
and pleasurable. Sometimes it helps to get a friend
to exercise with you.
- Don't let one thing dominate you, such as schoolwork,
relationships, jobs, sports, etc.
- View life as challenges to seek, not obstacles to
avoid.
- Take responsibility for your life and your feelings,
but never blame yourself.
- Maintain a reasonable diet and sane sleep habits.
- Use of alcohol and other drugs wisely, be in control
of it, not vice versa.
- Avoid the use of sleeping pills, tranquilizers,
and other drugs to control stress.
- Protect your personal freedoms and space. Do what
you want and feel, but respect the rights of others.
Don't tell others what to do, but if they intrude,
let them know.
- Find a time and place each day where you can have
complete privacy. Take time off from others and pressures.
Short time-outs during the day can help improve efficient
functioning the rest of the day.
- Don't drift along in troublesome and stressful situations
or relationships. Take action to change rather than
trying to avoid the problem. Taking chances is the
key to emotional well-being.
- Surround yourself with cues from positive thoughts
and relaxation.
- Review your obligations from time to time and make
sure they are still good for you. If they're not,
let them go.
- Open yourself to new experiences. Try new things,
new foods, new places.
- When worries start to build up, talk to someone.
Things to keep in mind
One way to monitor and
understand stress in your life is to record your feelings
in a diary. Once you gain better awareness of the things
that cause you stress, you can then build an action
plan to positively manage it by creating some positive
goals to help reduce the amount of stress in your daily
life.
- Deep breathing : Focus on slowing your heart
rate down by breathing in deeply and slowly, then
exhaling slowly and completely. Repeat the inhale/exhale
cycle at least five times.
- Quiet time : Find a place at home and at
work where you can get away from everyone and take
a few minutes for yourself. You can practice any relaxation
technique or simply spend the time thinking through
a problematic situation.
- Relaxation media : There is a variety of
relaxation media on the market in the form of cassettes,
CD’s, videos and even computer software.
- Visualization : The basic technique of visualization
is to put yourself in a relaxed position, breathe
deeply and rhythmically and close your eyes. Then,
in detail, imagine in your mind’s eye a peaceful place
or any surroundings that are pleasant and claming
to you. While imagining this place, focus on breathing
deeply and releasing tension from your entire body.
- Yoga : The word yoga comes from Sanskrit
language meaning union and is believed to be at least
6000 years old, originating in India. By separating
our "self" from the environment we are able
to come to terms with our individual personality and
start putting our mind and emotions in order.
- Meditation : Meditation is meant to bring
about awareness, nothing else. It’s a time to connect
to your inner “source” and let go of the issues, responsibilities
and situations that bind your life. To get you started,
here is an explanation of how to practice classic
and simple meditation:
- The Mantra : A mantra is a sound, word, or
phrase that is repeated to yourself out loud or silently.
The purpose of the mantra is to discard your normal
thoughts and focus your awareness inward. You can
select anything as your mantra from a single word
to religious scripture, anything that is meditative
for you. For this exercise, we will use a natural
mantra “hamsa,” being the natural sound one makes
when breathing... “ham” (h-ah-m) on inhalation and
“sa” (s-ah) on exhalation.
- The Hamsa Meditation : Sit comfortably back
straight, shoulders relaxed with your arms by your
side or resting in your lap. Select a quiet place
if possible, but it’s not required. Close your eyes
and breath naturally. Sit for a minute before you
begin thinking the mantra to allow your heart and
breathing to slow. Gently focus your attention on
your breath and begin thinking the mantra, slowly
and rhythmically, matching the mantra with your breath...
(h-ah-m) on inhalation and (s-ah) on exhalation. Allow
yourself to become absorbed in it. Let your thoughts
and feelings come and go without concern. Don't try
to control them in any way, simply note them. When
you realize you’re not repeating the mantra, re-focus
your attention on your breath and begin thinking the
mantra again. Don’t try to force yourself to think
the mantra to the exclusion of all other thoughts.
Meditate for at least 10 minutes, preferably 20 minutes.
When done, take about a minute to slowly return to
normal awareness. (It’s okay to glance at a clock
to time your meditation, however, I suggest you don't
use any kind of alarm timer.) Gently open your eyes
and slowly move to your feet. Be careful not to get
up too quickly after meditating, you may experience
some dizziness after a deep state of rest. You may
or may not experience a deep state of relaxation and
rest your first time meditating. As with many relaxation
techniques, meditation takes practice to reap all
the benefits. Don’t get discouraged, just stay with
it.
- Exercise : Exercise is an excellent means
of releasing tension from your body and inducing a
relaxation response. You’ve been practicing this technique
for many weeks now. Among the other benefits physical
activity brings, have you experienced a reduction
in stress?
- Stretching : Stress makes your muscles tense
up and can cause headaches, a stiff neck, sore shoulders
and a knotted back. Full body stretching will help
your muscles relax and help you to breath deeper.
Always remember to hold stretches for a minimum of
ten seconds and concentrate on elongating the muscle
slowly and rhythmically. Don’t bounce! When you don’t
have the time to stretch your entire body, try these
simple upper body-stretching exercises to release
tension. They can be easily done in a chair anywhere;
at home, at the office, traveling in a car, bus or
on plane: Are chemicals the culprit? Surprisingly,
much of the stress you experience daily could be due
to what you are putting into your body in the form
of chemicals. Be sure to eat a balanced, healthy diet
to assure you’re giving your body the nutrients it
needs to operate and maximum efficiency.
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